When looking for the roots of sexual addiction we do not need to look any further than our own sinful natures. The truth is that the problem is rather simple: by giving over to sin, people become increasingly prideful and self-centered. Much of our lives have been dictated by these two base motives. It is time to come to grips with what truly lies beneath the addict's lack of control. In a nutshell, as he has indulged the desires of his flesh, pride and selfishness have flourished within him. The more he gives his flesh what it demands in every area of life, the stronger the sin grows within him.
Dealing with sexual addiction in the Christian's life can be compared to dealing with bedsores of those suffering from debilitating illnesses. You can treat these painful lesions with the latest ointments, creams, and bandages, but unless you cure the disease, the patient will stay bedridden and continue to suffer with such irritation.
In the same way, sexual addiction is a by-product of a self-centered lifestyle. The person is addicted to illicit sex because he is consumed with SELF. You can "treat" the sexual problem for the rest of your life, but until the selfish nature is dealt with, the propensity to sin will remain. This is the reason Pure Life Ministries puts an emphasis on dealing with all the aspects of a believer's spiritual life. As the believer matures as a Christian, he will become increasingly more interested in the lives of others. The less self-centered he becomes, the less important self-gratification will be in his life.
— Steve Gallagher, At the Altar of Sexual Idolatry (pp. 106-7, emphasis added)
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